Christmas countdown: A mindful approach to Christmas stress

Hanging decorations, exchanging gifts, spending time with family. Remember when the holidays were your favourite time of year?

There are still plenty of fun, happy moments folded into the festive season, but it isn’t hard to feel frazzled by long visits with relatives, travelling (planes, trains, and automobiles!), heavier workloads and endless Christmas parties.

Fortunately, there are simple, mindful ways to help calm your seasonal stress. Here are some tips from Miles Neale, PsyD, a psychotherapist and a clinical instructor of psychology at Cornell Medical College in the US.

Maybe you’re running late for a party or trying not to lose your temper with Aunt Sally. When negative emotion creeps in, take a moment to cycle through your senses, one by one, and focus on what each is experiencing. What does the turkey in the kitchen smell like, and what color are the decorations around the house? When you feel stressed or anxious, your brain may be in a state of over-excitement, Neale says. By paying attention to immediate sensory cues, you’ll potentially draw attention away from the anxious thoughts chasing each other around your brain, and refocus them on the world around you.

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If you’re in for a long day at your in-laws or have a thousand errands to run, start the morning with a 10 minute meditation. This may help you start the day with a calmer mind and nervous system, rather than feeling stressed, Neale explains. Sit quietly and focus on your breathing, or on those here-and-now sensory cues. If you have a hard time finding your zen, consider a guided meditation app like Headspace.

When anxiety reaches “I’m going to scream” extremes, Neale doesn’t advocate mindfulness techniques. In those situations, removing yourself by taking a 10 minute walk to clear your head is probably your best move, he says. In fact, any kind of physical activity may help. “Anxiety is basically too much energy in your nervous system, and physical exercise — walking, yoga, swimming — is well documented to help relieve that energy.” If you can, head outdoors to a park or natural setting: preliminary research from Stanford University shows that a dose of nature may help distract you from focusing on your problems which could help reduce your stress levels even more.