The Right Personal Mantra Can Be a Powerful Motivator

Learn how to pick a phrase or word to get you through a difficult time or keep you going.
Published January 6, 2018

5K Every Day
I Can Do This
I Will Work Out

Whether they’re tweeted with a hashtag or played on repeat in your brain, mantras have helped WeightWatchers® Members reach their goals—and they can help you, too.

Mantras have been a part of Eastern spirituality for thousands of years. (In Sanskrit, the word means “instrument of the mind.”) The idea is that by repeating a phrase, a word, or even a sound, you can calm your mind, ward off anxious thoughts, and remind yourself what you should be doing differently or what you want to accomplish.

Now, however, people are embracing new types of mantras: ones that motivate them to walk more, stick to their eating plan, and take control of their health.

“Reciting a phrase over and over helps us internalize the message,” says Susan Peirce Thompson, PhD, an adjunct associate professor of brain and cognitive sciences at the University of Rochester and the author of Bright Line Eating. “Every action exists in thought first, and when you change your thinking, you change your behavior.”

In addition, a mantra can help you silence your inner critic—that tiny, nagging voice that doubts your ability to meet your goal. In that case, repeating a motivational phrase like “5K a Day” may help spur you into action enough times that the behavior becomes automatic and habitual.

How to Create a Mantra to Form Healthy Habits

The first step is to choose one thing that you want to accomplish, says Mary Jane Ryan, a personal change coach and the author of Habit Changers: 81 Game-Changing Mantras to Mindfully Realize Your Goals.

Use firm language

Ryan tells people to use strong words. Choosing a definitive statement puts you back in control of your actions, she says. This way, you’re not relying on the unconscious part of your brain that wants a doughnut.

Whatever you do, Ryan says, don’t use the word should. “Saying ‘I should’ or ‘I shouldn’t’ do something causes you to feel guilty, and guilt is a very toxic emotion,” she explains. “We tell ourselves we shouldn’t eat something, but when we do, we feel terrible. It’s like a spiral of misery.”

Make it catchy

“A mantra should be short enough that you can remember it,” says Ryan, who recommends keeping it to no more than six words. For example, if you want to overhaul part of your diet, try saying something like, “Water instead of wine,” she says. And yes, you get bonus points for using alliteration.

“When you articulate a sound [over and over], that repetition is almost like music,” says Marlynn Wei, MD, a psychiatrist and the coauthor of The Harvard Medical School Guide to Yoga. “By focusing your attention on one particular word or syllable, you prevent your mind from wandering and thinking about your work or deadlines, for example.”

Say it every day

It takes time to create a new habit—but you can’t internalize your mantra’s message if you never remember to say it. “The brain is structured to do what its always done,” says Ryan. “In the beginning, you need an extra reminder or two.” Try writing your mantra on a Post-it note, saving it as a reminder on your phone, or using it as the background on your laptop.

Mantras are effective even when you don’t say them out loud. When researchers from Israel asked people to silently repeat the Hebrew word for the number one, they found that their subjects experienced a decrease in activity in multiple regions of the brain, including the area that’s associated with self-evaluation.

Be kind to yourself 

You can tell yourself that you will move more, but on occasion, you won't. And that’s okay. “When you mess up, you have to show yourself some self-compassion,” says Ryan. Tell yourself that, while you might have chosen to binge-watch Netflix all day today, you won’t choose to do so tomorrow.

Or, put another way: “Don’t turn goof-ups into give-ups,” she says. And as Wei says, “Every day is a new day and that’s all that matters. There’s no judgment or competition. It should feel right to you.”

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