Know your portions
To help you size up your servings, come armed with some visuals:
- 1 cup of mashed potatoes is about the size of a tennis ball or your fist
- 3 ounces of turkey equals a computer mouse or a checkbook
- 1/2 cup of green bean casserole fits into a small cupcake wrapper or an ice cream scoop
- 1/4 cup of gravy equals 4 tablespoons; measure out some water in your gravy ladle to see how many tablespoons one full ladle holds
Comparison shop
Look up the
POINTS values of common foods before the meal so you can make smarter choices. Here's a mini guide:
| Item | POINTS Value | Item | POINTS Value |
|---|
| White meat turkey (no skin; 4 oz) | 4 | Turkey leg (with skin; 4 oz) | 6 |
| Mashed sweet potatoes (1 cup) | 4 | Candied sweet potatoes (1 cup) | 8 |
| Apple Pie (1 slice store-bought) | 7 | Pecan Pie (1 slice store-bought) | 10 |
| Wine (2 fl oz) | 1 | Vodka (2 fl oz) | 3 |
Employ a Leader's own tactics
New York-based meetings Leader Elizabeth Josefsberg shares her tricks of the trade at the Thanksgiving table:
- Don't sit down overly hungry; eat a decent breakfast and lunch
- Drink alcohol only when you're eating dinner
- Fill half your plate with vegetables
- Only go for one round of food (aka Liz's "one-plate rule")
- Eat the middle of your pie and skip the crust
- Even if you just take a bite of a puffed pastry or pecan pie, count each taste as 1 POINTS value (great rule of thumb for those random BLTs — bites, licks and tastes)
Go for the two-for-one side dish special
Hopefully not all the vegetables are drenched in butter. Opt for two spoonfuls of vegetable side dishes for each starch-based one that you take (and no, potatoes are
not a vegetable in this case).
Plan on eating leftovers
There are usually more than enough side dishes for a few meals. Whatever you don't taste today, you can taste tomorrow.
Seek satisfaction
Think about what's worth eating and what's not. You can make yourself a baked sweet potato anytime, but your Aunt's sweet potato pie is a once-a-year specialty.
Fend off food-pushing relatives
Don't eat something just because your mom wants you to. Compliment her outfit, ask for a recipe, enquire about an old friend — anything to change the topic from why you didn't touch both her pecan pie and pumpkin cheesecake.